subj = Family obligations...
How far do you let them go? How much do you let other peoples schedules determine your own. Isn't that the @*! of it. You feel compelled to make sure you fit in with what everyone else is doing, but somehow feel like the villain if accommodating the others compromises your goals or parameters for the meeting. Is this wrong? Are you supposed to just be happy your together and punt your own needs/constraints? What is the statute of limitations on what a second party does based on your actions from the view of a 3rd party. If it's what you would do ...does that necessarily make it what someone else should do?
How far do you let them go? How much do you let other peoples schedules determine your own. Isn't that the @*! of it. You feel compelled to make sure you fit in with what everyone else is doing, but somehow feel like the villain if accommodating the others compromises your goals or parameters for the meeting. Is this wrong? Are you supposed to just be happy your together and punt your own needs/constraints? What is the statute of limitations on what a second party does based on your actions from the view of a 3rd party. If it's what you would do ...does that necessarily make it what someone else should do?